Archive for April, 2009

Fashion

Posted by Amanda on April 25th, 2009

I have wanted to write about fashion here, but I am not the best writer, describer, etc. so I didn’t know if I could do it justice.  But on the bus home from enrichment this morning I had an experience that I just had to share. 

I am used to people staring at me.  Even without two or three kids with me, people stare at me a lot.  I suppose its a combination of my white coat (there are VERY few white coats here), lack of a big, gawdy purse, my jeans that are not skin tight (meaning how in the world will that girl get those jeans off her legs, they might be painted on), my boots or other shoes that don’t have three inch heels.  So fashion-wise, I don’t really fit in, here. 

This morning on the bus I caught a girl staring at me.  She looked at my head/face, then her eyes wandered down to my shoes, and back up to my face.  I stared back at her, and I will attempt to describe what she was wearing.  She had a black cap on, with black and silver sequins on it, a mustard colored coat with black polka dots.  It was fitted, but poofed a little at the bottom, which was just below her behind.  She had black leggings on with a shiny silver stripe down the outside of the leg.  And I could see hanging under her coat was a long sweater, kind of shiny and auburn colored.  And she had a large, shiny, hot pink purse.  I’m just now realizing that I didn’t even look at her shoes.  I was a little distracted…  I wished I had a camera.

One thing I admire about fashion here is that people always try to look their best.  Except in the comfort of their own home, which I don’t know much about, but have heard from others – the take off their nice clothes and lounge around in sweats or whatever.  But when someone goes out of the house, they really make sure to look nice.  I think back home people are a little too casual sometimes, resulting in sloppiness.  People here are not sloppy in their dress.  Only homeless people, who have a good excuse.

Outsourcing

Posted by Amanda on April 22nd, 2009

Lately I’ve been outsourcing some of my duties.  When we realized I was going to be having a baby at the beginning of Darryl’s busy season, and that his busy season lasted through May last year, and that I’d have to go grocery shopping on foot with 3 children and a double stroller 4 times a week, we decided to get a nanny.  I have no idea what the going rate is for a nanny in the States, but here it is dirt cheap, so it really was an option.

I resisted the idea for months.  Its my duty to clean the house and take care of the children, right?  I was already feeling guilty.  But Darryl convinced me it was for his sanity as well as mine.    So we put the word out to people we knew at church here, and found a girl that had just returned from a mission to St. Petersburg but couldn’t start her school year until next fall. 

It has been a roller coaster of feelings for me.  I love that she washes the dishes, that I can take a nap if I need to, and that she will go out shopping for me (or watch 1,2, or 3 kids while I go).  But it took several weeks to get over feeling guilty (I think I’m mostly over it now), and I just feel like a guest in my own home sometimes.  And sometimes I would try to keep her busy, so I would purposely not clean something to save it for her the next day.  Now that is just silly.

It has been a journey.  She started out coming 8 hours a day, 5 days a week.  Tuesday and Thursday, she takes Kathryn to preschool, so they are gone from 8:30 – 1, then she leaves at 4:30 those days.  Recently I had her start coming at 12 on M,W,F. 

Dinner has been interesting.  She is here for dinner most days.  I like to be in charge, and I usually do like making dinner, so I don’t really want to or don’t know how to delegate.  A few weeks ago I had the bright idea to ask her to make Ukrainian food for us once a week.  It has been wonderful!  One of my favorite things, seriously.  I’ll have to blog about the food separately.  So that took care of one day.  We always have pizza on Fridays, and she has showed us some new ways to do pizza.  Another blog subject.  Anyway, it is a learning experience, but it is working out.  I do admit that I like Tuesdays and Thursdays when she leaves at 4:30 before dinner.  Then if Darryl is working late I can just scramble eggs for the girls and not feel guilty!

Just a few days ago I realized that we will only have her a few more weeks.  And then I will most likely never have a nanny or housekeeper again.  So I should take advantage of this opportunity.  I started by jogging outside while she watches the kids. 

Its interesting with cultural differences.  Sometimes we have to laugh a little, and I’m sure she tells stories about us to her family.  Here is a picture of when she took Amelia and Kathryn to her home on her grandma’s birthday.

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Little D

Posted by Amanda on April 11th, 2009

     Daniel turned 3 months on Thursday.  We call him Little D sometimes (except for Amelia who insists that he is a “Big D”).  My other names for him are Mister Daniel, Little Guy, and Baby Daniel.  And sometimes we call him Daniel, too.  I took several pictures of him on his 3 month birthday:

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