Hopefully someday I really will catch up a little and post about Amelia’s 2nd birthday (2 months ago), and our trip to Canada (almost 1 month ago). In the meantime taking care of 3 kids and a home without a nanny sure takes a lot of work! Only slightly less than it was with a nanny. Ha, ha. Thank you dishwasher and dryer! Good news is we purchased some furniture yesterday. Bad news is it won’t be delivered for a month, so we are still couch/loveseat/chair-less. And now to my thoughts on our re-entry to American life.
When we talk to friends, or meet new people, it seems like they always assume we are so glad to be back. Like we couldn’t wait to get away from Ukraine. Well, the truth is, we miss it. Yes, there were hard things. Yes, I did a lot of complaining (and maybe extra on the blog because I was trying to point out differences). And yes, it is nice to be closer to our families, even in the same time zone as some.
But right now we aren’t always that glad to be back. We lived in Kyiv for almost 2 years, so it was our home. We had gotten used to the shopping, transportation, friends, and life. The thing I love most about a foreign experience (living not just visiting), is the changing/broadening of perspective. That some things aren’t better or worse, just different. And that we in North America are pretty spoiled. That Heavenly Father sure has a lot of children, and they are all known to Him.
Some things that I have noticed. Recycling. At first it was so hard not to recycle in Kyiv. I cringed throwing away all the paper. But of course in time I got used to it, and it was pretty convenient to put everything into the same garbage. We were welcomed back to Seattle with some new recycling rules. We now have food waste recycling. We apparently did it wrong the first couple weeks, because they didn’t pick it up. But I think I’ve got it now. Food waste such as vegetables and bread can go in it. But not in a bag, just straight into the container. It goes to some big compost pile, I think. And the other recyclables are all together, no separating glass or anything. That part is nice.
Toilets flush differently. This really confused Kathryn for awhile. Our flush in Kyiv was on top of the toilet, and you pushed it in. She couldn’t find the flush handle on the side of the toilet. Also, for some reason light switches to bathrooms are on the outside of the room in Kyiv. Why, for kids to torture their parents in the shower by turning off the light? Luckily our girls never really figured out they could do that. But sometimes we are looking for the light switch on the outside of the bathroom. Debbie – I know you mentioned these two things!
Bread. I almost threw up when I saw the price of bread. Then I almost threw up when I ate it. Just kidding, some is quite tasty. We just really loved the bread in Ukraine. Luckily our breadmaker is still alive and well, and I’ve been using it almost everyday. Now to grind some wheat so I can have wheat bread. Just need a grinder…
Shopping in general is SO different. I actually went to Safeway and bought a week’s worth of groceries. I filled up a whole cart, with no thought of whether I could carry it home in my backpack. Now that is glorious. Of course nothing compares to the experience of the open market for fruits and vegetables, but it sure is nice not to need to shop 3 times a week. On the market subject, thank goodness for Lenny’s.
When we got to Ukraine I wasn’t sure how to cook there. Like without cream of chicken/mushroom soup, cake mixes and stuff like that. Now I’m not sure how to cook with those things! The sugar is so fine, it was large crystals there. For Amelia I made all her babyfood (except cereal) because in Kyiv it was both weird (like the options were squash or eggplant) and extremely expensive. Now that Daniel is starting to eat food, I want to make his, too, because I can.
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